Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Kid Walker

I have a friend that walks my kid for me once a week. Doesn't that sound awful?

Jasmine and I try to get out for a walk in the mornings but we don't always. My Friend is a summer person here. She only lives here in the summer. Since her other home is in Arizona she likes the cooler temperatures here and since she's retired she has a little more time than I do. This works out really well for me because once a week I get an hour or two alone.

Trust me, an hour or two alone is a wonderful thing. I love Jasmine and I love that I get to spend a lot of time with her but she needs a lot of attention and it's nice to be able to work and/or veg in front of the computer without having to stop every two minutes to answer a school related question or try and get her back on task.

I spend a lot of time trying to get her back on task. We are required to do a certain amount of school every day (four hours, but we do five). This leads to time wasting behavior where she has spent the full allotted time on a task and written two sentences. I hate that. I'm going to make her start counting her words.

Anyway, right now I'm cutting vinyl and intermittently cruising the internet in silence. It's sooo nice.

8 comments:

Sandee (Comedy +) said...

Silence is indeed GOLDEN. Enjoy. :)

SandyCarlson said...

Those respites are wonderful. It can be hard to switch gears every three seconds. Nice for both of you!

Mo said...

Alone time is good for the soul.
And I'm sure Jasmine enjoys the strolls with the friend, too!
Wish I was closer, I'd take an afternoon a week with her!

love ya,
mo

Travis said...

I can't imagine having the patience for home schooling. You definitely need some alone time to keep that going.

Janna said...

I love solitude and silence.
Often it's the best part of the entire day.

Mags said...

Have you ever watched The Kind of Queens? They have someone who walks their father. :)

It's good for her to get out and walk with this friend. And it's good for you to have alone time. See? It's good all around.

Marilyn said...

Sandee: Amen!

Sandy: It really is.

Mo: She would love that.

Travis:It's a lot harder than I thought it would be but I guess we're doing okay.

Janna: I love to be alone when I've been with people all day. Spending all day alone, like when Jasmine was at her dad's, is really hard for me though.

Mags: I did see that once. They even pay the Dad walker. I think that's how I made the connection.

katherine. said...

while nice for you....smile.... it is important for kids to learn to be around adults other than their family...

I think it is a great idea.